You shall not bear false witness
against your neighbor.
What does this mean?
We should fear and love God, so
that we don not lie about, betray or slander our neighbor, but excuse him,
speak well of him, and put the best construction on everything.
A story is told of a young man
during the middle ages who went to a monk, saying, “I have sinned by telling
slanderous statements about someone.
What should I do now?” The monk
replied, “Put a feather on every doorstep in town.” The young man did as he was told. Then he returned to the monk, wondering if
there was anything else that he should do.
The monk said, “Now go back and pick up all the feathers.” The young man replied, “That is impossible!
By now the wind will have blown them all over the town.” The monk replied, “So has your slanderous
word become impossible to retrieve.”
Next to one’s own body, spouse,
and temporal possessions, we still have another great treasure that God wishes
to protect – honor and good reputation.
As Solomon says, “A good name is to be chosen rather than great
riches.” We cannot do without a good
reputation, for it is intolerable to live among people in open shame and
contempt. Once someone’s name has been
tarnished, it becomes almost impossible to restore it. If we learn something juicy about someone
close to us, it becomes almost impossible to forget, yet we have no right to
share it, unless called to do so in court.
To bear false witness is nothing
other than the work of the tongue. It
doesn’t only mean that one should not share false things about one’s neighbor,
but not even sharing true statements about one’s neighbor. For if we are unwilling to go before a judge
with the same information then why should we be willing to share these unkind
statements with others. Unless our
speaking results in the building up of his reputation, one should keep his
mouth shut. Yet we cannot handle
this. We would rather make ourselves
look better than suffer the praise and adoration of one’s neighbor.
There are times when the Christian
is called upon to admonish his neighbor, yet we would rather keep silent. Jesus says that if your brother sins go and
tell him his fault between you and him alone.
If he repents, you have gained a brother. Unfortunately, I fear that we are all too
comfortable either keeping our mouth shut or too busy sharing the faults of our
neighbor with those who have no reason to know.
Instead we should only act when we have the reformation and love of our
neighbor in mind. The same still rings
true as we were told when we were kids, “If you can’t say anything nice, don’t
say anything at all.”
The law and its power have no
means to rehabilitate. It only
condemns. “Don’t lie.” it says, yet we
lie anyway. By the grace of God, there
is forgiveness for liars like us.
Forgiveness does not come about by giving it our best shot, but only by
the love that has been shown to us in Jesus Christ. “Father forgive them” Jesus said, “for they
know not what they do.” Jesus yearns to
give of Himself to you, so that you quit relying on your imperfect works and
trust only in that which Jesus has already done. Only then can you truly begin to love our
neighbor without the fear of the law.
Almighty God, You have sent the Spirit of truth to us
to guide us into all truth. Rule in our
hearts, we pray, by Your grace and power, that we may be truthful in our
thoughts, words, and actions. Keep us,
merciful Lord, in Your fatherly care and protection, that no fear or sinful
ambition may make us deceitful in our speech or behavior. Cleans us, we ask, from everything false and
wrong, and bring us into the freedom of Your Good News in Christ Jesus our
Lord, in whose name we pray. Amen.